I've been seeing a guy for just over a year now but for various reasons only been in an official relationship for a couple months.
Back when we were just seeing someone he slept with someone else but he told me straight away, apologised profusely and it was something I felt at the time I could put behind me.
Fast forward to now and things (i thought) were going great. However Friday night he went out for work drinks and I didn't hear from him then until Saturday morning. He claims he stayed at a friends house but left at 5 in the morning as he couldn't sleep.
I instantly didn't believe him, I just got a gut feeling he was lying. If it's worth mentioning the previous case of him cheating happened exactly the same.. He went out, ended up staying out all night, claimed he stayed with a mate and turned out he had spent the night with a female.
Is it enough to end a relationship with a man I love purely on gut feeling with no real evidence to suggest he has cheated? Or should I drop it and put it down to me being paranoid because of past experiences?
I'm asking for different viewpoints on this as I'm hoping you can give me a wake up call - whichever answer it may be.
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Would you ever end a relationship on a gut instinct rather than solid evidence?
Yummum19 · 10/07/2016 17:42
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