....that you don't see eye to eye and find it hard to maintain a relationship.
I'll go first:
My mum, immigrant 30 years ago but never integrated with British society. She was born in a 3rd world Asian communist country.
She is a recluse.
She has NO and NEVER HAD friends .Only a handful of acquaintances on the street.(I was never allowed friends. I never ever did playdates).
She doesn't read (I was never allowed novels or any kind of creative reading.)
Mum hates music, theatre or art (I was not allowed to learn a musical instrument and never allowed out to the movies).
She doesn't like any sport (I never learnt to swim).
She can't cope with noise. (I was not allowed to have the radio on growing up).
Her house is full of clutter and she collects empty boxes at home.
She has never worked, she doesn't understand what her children do.
She is complete narcissist - She is unable to take ANY criticism.
She is racist, hates black people and think the whiter the skin, the more superior.
She acts like the martyr and refuses to get any help with my dad (stroke victim). Her life is blighted by looking after my dad 24x7 but refuses ANY professional help.
Refuses my dad to go to any daycare centers.
She completely relies on my brother to help wash dad and move him around, several times a week. Brother is just 35 and has a baby,, so much so, it's causes issues in his marriage. Mum refuses to acknowledge there is a problem and will scream at you even if you hint it.
She never goes out of the house other than to the same Tesco shop.
She takes NO physical exercise - and suffers from numerous phantom ailments.
When I left home to go to University she said I was to never ever come knocking on her door again to live at home. That she hated me and that I disappointed her and that I was to never ever ask for her help.
And I never ever did.
I truly believe some parents should not have had children.
If you made it this far, please tell me about your parents. How different are they to you? Note - I'm still in touch with my mum and we have a very distant and cordial relationship. We both only feel the need to see and talk to each other for a few minutes a handful of times a year. Knowing I'm alive is really enough for her - she freely admits it.
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