Hi.
So tonight I've basically spent the last 2 hours alone.
My DH and I are in the home....but I have been alone.
This happens most evenings. There hasn't been a row or anything. We've just done our own thing. Or rather he has...
I wouldn't mind only it's been going on for a few years. We have a lot of stress as I'm also a carer to my Mum and I struggle to get on with ILs, which adds tension. He also works long hours and isn't well sometimes with exhaustion. However I also work, albeit pt, and that plus juggling being Mum and a carer floors me.
But we never want to do anything together. On the extremely rare occasion we get a babysitter neither of us makes plans or knows what to do. I used to....I booked us in to see a musical and go stay at a posh hotel ages ago. I used to always plan things we could do. Book all our trips away
But now I've stopped as he does none of this.
Basically I'm fed up. This feels like an empty marriage. Maybe I'm being an unreasonable b1tch. He's a decent man and great father to our LO. But I can't take much more. We went marriage counselling.... waste of time...he didn't want to continue. He says he doesn't want me to leave but if I do he won't/can't stop me.
The physical side of our relationship is non existent. No basic affection or cuddles... let alone much else.
I know it's football season and to be expected...but I'm so fed up and feel v alone. AIBU?
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Totally don't know what to about DH anymore....
Fedupd0tcom · 06/07/2016 23:00
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