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i have a sex related question and i cant post in the sex topic....its not that naughty

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AprilSkies44 Tue 05-Jul-16 17:11:51

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LazyJournalistsQuoteMN Tue 05-Jul-16 17:14:42

Depends on the couple. Some do, some don't

ALaughAMinute Tue 05-Jul-16 17:35:16

Hardly ever in my experience. I usually climax first during foreplay if I'm with a man who knows what he's doing.

TanTanNubuck Tue 05-Jul-16 17:38:27

Blimey, I thought the pressure to achieve this went out of fashion ca. 1985. It was the in thing back then, a bit like female ejaculation seems to be now. Maybe it's back in vogue? hmm

As a couple you are not performing seals. I would think that striving for this could be extremely distracting.
Just enjoy the sex. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't it's no big deal.

Helpmeltb Tue 05-Jul-16 17:38:46

Quite often with current dp - more often than not. Rarely with anyone previously.

Mintychoc1 Tue 05-Jul-16 17:39:15

I have never come during PIV sex.

HoggleHoggle Tue 05-Jul-16 17:41:30

We sometimes do...I always come first and so if dh is particularly, erm, quick, then he will hang on until I do and then come at the same time. But we tend to each orgasm through different positions so we sort of take it in turns. That makes it sound terribly English, like an orgasm queue blush

AprilSkies44 Tue 05-Jul-16 17:41:39

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Buggers Tue 05-Jul-16 17:44:47

I always do. Only if I'm on top though.

FV45 Tue 05-Jul-16 20:41:13

What's PIV sex?

alphabook Tue 05-Jul-16 20:43:47

I think that has happened maybe twice in my 6 year relationship.

EllaHen Tue 05-Jul-16 20:44:06

HoggleHoggle - that did make me laugh. Orgasm queue. grin

ProfessorBranestawm Tue 05-Jul-16 20:54:44

nope oral only for me (DH is a freaking GENIUS at it and loves doing it grin) I do enjoy the PIV sex but can't quite 'get there' with it

AprilSkies44 Tue 05-Jul-16 20:55:27

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AprilSkies44 Tue 05-Jul-16 21:03:53

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AprilSkies44 Tue 05-Jul-16 21:21:48

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LuluJakey1 Tue 05-Jul-16 21:34:53

DH and I manage it sometimes but I usually come a bit before him during piv sex. If not he makes sure I do afterwards.

merville Tue 05-Jul-16 21:52:33

envy (had to use the envy emoji cause there's no throwing up emoji) wink

BertieBeats Tue 05-Jul-16 21:59:42

I cum from penetrative sex but that's because there's usually grinding involved so gives me the clitoral stimulation I need. If we're doing doggy style or spooning I usually have to rub myself (or partner does). I do prefer a orgasm through penetration because the fullness makes them more intense.

AyeAmarok Tue 05-Jul-16 22:03:42

Probably only manage it a third of the time. Maybe a quarter actually. And it requires some clever positioning that benefits us both.

Generally I need oral sex or manual stimulation to get there and then I go to sleep, satisfied

AprilSkies44 Tue 05-Jul-16 22:14:59

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ProfessorBranestawm Tue 05-Jul-16 22:33:29

Sorry Merville I wasn't aware that TMI was an issue on a sex thread wink grin

AnecdotalEvidence Tue 05-Jul-16 22:57:57

Yes almost always. I need extra stimulation alongside PIV but DH waits until I come, then that generally tips him over the edge too.
It doesn't matter if we don't, no big deal either way, that's just the way it works for us.

AprilSkies44 Tue 05-Jul-16 23:08:43

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merville Tue 05-Jul-16 23:15:15

ProfessorBranestawm It was envy induced nausea .. if only your husband could give evening classes on it for the good of womankind; we should contact our local F&E colleges and demand they start running them wink.

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