I'm expecting a flaming for this but I'll take it on the chin as I really need advice. As background to this, I separated with my children's father over 6 years ago and they have only met one of my boyfriends in the past who I was very much in love with and planning to build a future with but it didn't work out after 1.5 years.
So here goes......introduced my new boyfriend of one month to my children and now I want to break up with him. I know it was way too soon but it wasn't planned. I so rarely can get a babysitter to go on dates so I invited him round one evening when the kids were in bed but they came down and met him.
Since then (a few weeks) we have spent a lot of time together and he is really good with them, makes a lot of effort etc. but there are lots of things now where I don't think we are comparable even though he's a nice guy.
I feel so guilty as I will have to explain it to my children after they have formed a kind of friendship with him.
What do I do? Please help
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Jaffacakesaremyfave · 05/07/2016 09:03
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