Does this mean any thing to you!? Are you/were you (like me) single for most of your life, with only a few brief fling-like attachments or attachments to men with one foot out the door.
I'm reading a great book which is a development of some of john bowlby's theories but for adult attachment styles and I'm realising that the last man I grew attached to made me feel (mildly) anxious-proccupied. It's all just so eye-opening. I have been reading this book and googling and trying to absorb and comprehend it all. I've just had the best system for staying single going on.
I'm sure I could have a secure attachment style if I were with another secure person. I think I get it now. Finally.
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ThePigeon314 · 01/07/2016 12:37
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