My husband just grabbed my shoulders and shook me during an argument. I am so shocked, I know everyone says this but it is so so out of character for him. He is exceptionally mild mannered generally. I asked him to stop calmly and he did and immediately started apologising ( not in a im sorry but.. kind of way but in a totally gobasmacked ashamed way)
The last few months have been incredibly rough on us both, I am a carer and the family member is very unwell now and during this slide my husband has been made redundant twice. We have had less than no money ( having to choose between bills) and have suffered two close family bereavements. Last week we found out another relative has cancer and it all seems to have piled up. We are due to start counselling at relate in 8 days as our communication with each other has broken down. We have been on the waiting list for three months and it has been a real struggle with stress for both of us. But still nothing beyond snapping about money and time with each other.
Is there a way through this. I am more shocked than hurt but at the same time I dont want to minimise this. I just don't know what to do right now. I asked him to sleep on the sofa and give me space and he has.
Could someone just hold my hand /hand me a grip please.
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I need advice and a hand hold.
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Kthen · 29/06/2016 22:52
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