OK so I have just stopped dating someone after 3 months because I was only ever a back up options, he always blew me out if he got a better offer etc which as you can imagine gave my self esteem a kicking.
So after telling this bloke I am not putting up with his behaviour any more I got chatting to another bloke. He asked me out on a date for coffee which I agreed to. We arranged for Sunday but he contacted me Thursday asking could we make it sooner as he really wants to meet me.
We rearranged for Friday after work, coffee went well so we arranged a second date, later that night. We met up and had drinks. Then Saturday he came round to mine and cooked for me. He brought chocolates and wine, was ever the gent and a whizz in the kitchen. He spent the night and then we went out for lunch Sunday and spent all day Sunday together until I had to get home for my kids. Last night he came round to mine when the kids were in bed and we shared a bottle of wine.
So I am flattered he wants to spend so much time with me, more so after the last bloke who made me feel worthless. I am enjoying his company, he is polite and lovely. Is it all a bit quick though? Would you see red flags or have I been reading too much Mumsnet?
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Whirl wind romance or Red Flag?
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HairySubject · 27/06/2016 09:57
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