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(6 Posts)
Katiep87 Sun 26-Jun-16 07:25:01

I'm just after some advice I'm really struggling with my dh, I'm thinking about leaving. We argue a lot, and I tell him how unhappy I am, how I don't trust him. He decided to look at online sites adult ones a while back but claimed nothing come of it, he watches porn now even though I don't like it, he says he can't help himself. He's a very angry person, in the car he beeps screams and swears at anyone even if they really aren't doing anything too bad. He goes purple with anger. I feel so unhappy in my life with him, but he doesn't change. He's also very lazy in bed. He really hurt me with his sneaking around a while back, it's took so much time to become strong again. But I'm starting to struggle once more

SlinkyVagabond Sun 26-Jun-16 07:34:03

Life is too short. If you are unhappy and don't actually like him (which it sounds like) then go. No point in both of you being unhappy.

Katiep87 Sun 26-Jun-16 07:36:16

The thing is, I don't like him, he knows this! But whenever I say we need to end it he says he's going no where and will stay by myside forever, I just don't have that love anymore, he took that from me

Hotwaterbottle1 Sun 26-Jun-16 10:05:36

My h is a nice guy but I'm so unhappy I'm leaving. I really believe life is too short and you sound dreadfully unhappy. He can't make you stay with him. It's hard but you need to be strong and do what I've done, look into finances etc & be firm. Don't say we need to end it. Tell him you are ending it.

DoreenLethal Sun 26-Jun-16 10:22:40

he says he's going no where and will stay by myside forever

He doesn't get to decide this. If you want to leave then make your plans and go. If he starts stalking you - there are laws against that.

AnyFucker Sun 26-Jun-16 10:35:31

Divorce him.

He can't force you to stay married to him.

It will be horrible for a while, but if you want your freedom you will have to push through it

It's up to you

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