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I don't love my husband anymote

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Onedaughteronecat Mon 20-Jun-16 21:16:27

I've been married 20 years and we have one DD. My husband and I have always had an up and down relationship but always muddle through.

Recently though, my thoughts have been turning more and more negative and I really don't think I want to be in this relationship anymore. I am not happy at all.

On the outside, we appear to 'have it all'. My husband is a good man and a great father. His one downside is that he is a perfectionist and neither me or my DD are perfect. But I am not happy. I hate sex with him and sometimes I really dislike him. I know that many many times he dislikes me. I can tell by his whole demeanour and the way he talks to me.

Is there anyway out of this? Can I change my feelings? If so, how?

AddToBasket Mon 20-Jun-16 23:04:53

Well, you haven't provided enough details here to know whether this is salvagable.

But, you have a DD and you think he is a 'good man' so you may as well get some counselling so you can know you've tried everything. If the counselling can't fix things, it can help you to find a path out and into a new life.

Oddsocksgalore Mon 20-Jun-16 23:07:42

Once you get to the point where you hate sex, it's time to leave.

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