I'm fuming and upset with my mil over her comments to our pregnancy announcement for number 4.
Firstly this baby was planned, and we are happily married and are financially stable!
We had an early scan at 7 weeks and as they were visiting, we decided to tell them (fil and mil)
We had no congratulations, no smile or hugs, just a barrage of negativity and faces like slapped arses.
These are just some of the delightful comments we had repeated over and over;
1.my husband should put an knot in it
2.what have we done?
3.how will we cope?
4.dh is still tied to her apron strings??
5.i need my tubes tying
I was too upset to say anything at the time. Now I'm angry! This is out baby they are talking about. We are not some feckless teenagers, how dare they!
I know eventually they will come around to the idea, but by then I will be seething and can't just forget this hurt.
I think the fact they chose to have one baby (dh) means they think we should have stuck to one or two max. Anything more in her eyes is bizarre.
She is mad we haven't listened to the hints she has continually dropped thought the years to not have anymore.
Anyone been through similar?
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How to deal with hurtful reaction to our pregnancy news.
Snowflakes1122 · 11/06/2016 07:19
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