I recently moved to a different building for my job. I didn't know anyone in this building even though I've worked for the company for a few years. At the same time I split with my dp (father to my dd). This happened just under 6 months ago.
Over the past 2 months I have developed a HUGE crush on a man who works on the floor above. We don't directly work together but I have to go into his office once a week and this is the highlight of my week. I just want to talk to him all the time. We seem to get on well (laughing, joking, him asking me questions about myself) and he always seems happy to see me. He hasn't got a girlfriend (well he didn't when I asked him a month ago) but is always texting on his phone so may be seeing someone now. I jokingly asked him if it was a girl he was texting the other day and he just laughed.
He hasn't shown any signs on being interested in me even though he's more chatty with me then anyone else and we can literally talk for a hour without any awkward silences. He did mention a local event and I asked him if he wanted to go with me but he said now. He says he never really goes out and that he prefers staying in so I didn't take it personally but obviously if there was a chance he liked me he would have said yes.
Sorry to ramble on but has anyone get any tips on how to get over this crush. It's not having any effect on my work as we don't work directly together but I can feel myself becoming distracted. I have NEVER felt this crazy over a crush, I barely know him and yet I can't stop thinking about him. I am not a needy or over emotional person but I can feel myself feeling a bit sad that he doesn't like me back. I know I need to snap out of it but it's so hard when you like someone but they don't like you back.
I was with xdp for over 6 years so it's been a while since I was 'out there' and need to learn how to control my feelings!
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How do I get over this crush. Really struggling!
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Wardrobia · 08/06/2016 18:38
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