Our son is 5 months old and since he was born (and while I was pregnant) my husband has taken very little interest in him. I have returned to work this week and now for half the week my husband has our DS during the day.
When DS goes to the childminder, he gets fussy at midday when he wants to be BF and has to cope with the bottle but then gets on with it and is generally quite happy. When he is at home with my husband, according to my husband, our DS spends the day crying, refusing to eat and not sleeping. DH gets very mad by this and hates this time with our son.
This upsets me so much. I love my DS and he is the happiest, sweetest little boy. I don't know why my husband is finding it so hard to "cope". I know they need to bond - I have never stopped them, but the DH never seemed interested (even when I suggested). What can I do? How can I help them? I wish I could quit my job and go home and look after him myself but financially this isn't an option, neither is full time childcare. I am worried what effect this is going to have on my happy little boy too.
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How do I get my husband to bond with our baby?
1Catherine1 · 08/06/2016 13:10
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