We have known that we would be separating for about 18 months. Driven by me. I finally got a house a month ago, the children (4,8 and 10) were told and I moved out 3 weeks ago.
Yesterday he informed me he had met someone else and was at pains to point out that it was serious.
I can date exactly when in started to the day, just over a month ago.
He wants to introduce her to our children in the next couple of weeks.
I can not believe that he thinks this is appropriate.
I feel so sad and angry and just horrible.
We have been completely amicable up until this point but it is as if his whole personality has changed.
I don't know what to do. I am worried he is going to do something mad like move her in. I'm worried about finances, we have some joint savings that i cannot access. I keep asking him to sort it but he stalls.
We were going to sort divorce stuff ourselves in our own time, to make sure the joint savings didn't end up in a solicitors pocket. Right now though I think I should go and see one so that I am protected (maybe)?
Emotionally this has knocked me for six. I could cope if he was being ok with me but he isn't. I'm on the edge of tears the whole time and feel like I have been replaced completely within a month.
How am i going to get through this without either turning into bitch psycho from hell or crumpling into a weeping puddle?
I hope this makes sense, I'm working on very little sleep!
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chewybacca · 05/06/2016 18:37
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