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Third date - advice?

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blankpieceofpaper · 01/06/2016 23:22

We are having dinner Friday - the last two times it has been more of a casual meet from work/ coffee before something.

How much more do I have to glam it up this time? Are there things I should talk about? It has been a long time since I had to ask this question! Came out of a long term relationship a while ago and not been looking for anything until recently.

And just to be clear - there is no intention for us to end up spending the night together.

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BlokesAllowed · 01/06/2016 23:25

I assume you are a lady?

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BlokesAllowed · 01/06/2016 23:27

Then glam it up! But lay down any ground rules you want. There's nothing you need to talk about, if it clicks, it will come naturally.

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TheNaze73 · 01/06/2016 23:52

Just be yourself, have no agenda & enjoy it. Hope all goes well Wine

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Resilience16 · 02/06/2016 00:44

Sounds obvious but the one question I would be sure to ask is "Are you definitely single? ". Don't just assume. Not asking this one, and just assuming cos I was they were, has bitten me on the arse before now. ...
Good luck and enjoy x

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Cabrinha · 02/06/2016 07:54

You don't have to glam it up at all.
Be yourself and wear what you want to wear.
In any case, it might depend on whether dinner is Nando's or the fanciest restaurant in your town!
Just be yourself, wear what you want to, don't pre-plan the conversation.

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