I don't want to give too many details away, but here goes.
My BIL is getting re-married in a few days. My husband was recently at his stag do. They are not close, little in common, and we rarely see him but they are civil. BIL likes to get drunk and get into fights. He has been aggressive towards my DH in the past but not in recent years. On the stag do, BIL suddenly and aggressively confronted my DH. DH had made a remark about a song that was playing to someone else. BIL fronted up to him, shouting at him in front of everyone there, who went silent. DH left. Was very shaken and upset when he got home. I know from other people that this is a true account of events.
Family agree that BIL was out of order but seem to think this behaviour is OK because he was drunk. I do not want to go to this man's wedding. He has a history of behaving this way but in MILs eyes he can do no wrong. If I don't go, it will be me who will be seen to be in the wrong, which makes me even more angry.
BIL has only recently met wife to be and I have only met her a couple of times. She has not made any effort to get to know me and is therefore a stranger, so I won't be going for her benefit.
I am angry and don't want to go. I don't feel my DH and I are safe around this man. Should I go?
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Should I go to my BIL's wedding?
Purple79b · 01/06/2016 21:56
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