I'm a regular here and last year/ early this year I posted about a affair I ended up in.
Recap is 3 years ago first day in new job I met a guy who worked there, total fireworks and chemistry moment for both of us, nothing happen to begin then he left our place of work ) contractor) and took my number, we texted regularly guess was a little flirty and suddenly one day I get a call form a lady saying she is his partner, as far as I was aware he was single and we had no more contact from that point on! that was the end of it until a year later when he returned to my work and basically started chasing me, we used to go out in groups and slowly that developed into us spending time alone, he told me he was unhappy, he wanted me etc etc
Despite knowing it was wrong I ended up in a affair with him, I believed him when he said he loved me and was leaving, I was head over heels for him!
Towards the end of last year his gf found out, as he requested I didn't talk to her at all and gave her no info regards our affair and from the day it came out he totally cut me out of his life he just ignored me totally st work and I never heard from him again.... I was in peices, heartbroken and ended up in anti d's
Then March this year he injured himself and has been off work so I haven't seen him and I was finally feeling better until Friday just gone when he arrived back at work, he actually spoke to me a bit and besides the general politeness I just ignore him like he did to me but seeing him again as brought all those feelings back!
I'm upset all over again, I'm angry at him for all the things he said and clearly didn't mean and I'm upset that he is everything I thought he wasn't!
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pain of my affair hitting me all over again
steamtrainderailed · 31/05/2016 13:17
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