Okay. Not really sure about writing on here. I think I will get a lot of negative responses, but I just want to vent.
For the past six or seven years, I have been hugely attracted to the husband of a friend of mine. I am 'happily' married myself (20 odd years and three children), but my relationship with my husband has never been what you would call passionate - or at least not on my part. I have always been aware of the possibility of meeting someone who switched on all my lights, so to speak, but time was ticking and my now husband was a good friend, who also wanted children, so I made the conscious decision to marry him. Now I have felt that switching on, albeit remotely, and it is making me utterly miserable.
There is absolutely no possibility of anything ever coming of it and I do my best to avoid seeing him, but it is tricky as this friend and I are both part of a group of 5 or 6 couples who socialise together and also one of their daughters is best friends with mine.
I feel so stupid to be in this position at my time of life (50's), when I ought to know better, instead of feeling like a love-sick teenager! Perhaps I am just having a delayed mid-life crisis and will just get over it - eventually.
Right - shoot me down!
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Twentyyearstoolate · 31/05/2016 01:27
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