Don't know what to do but start at the beginning. But right now I'm so unhappy!
We are both full time employed; I have 3 children, ds23, ds19 & dd7 he has dsd8. Only my dd7 lives with us full time, the dsd8 is with us once a week and every other weekend.
Before we married in 2014 we had counciling as he displayed controlling behaviour. I.e he shouted/demanded(And throttled me in front of the girls)/ accused me of adultery etc and I refused to give in! He agreed to try to be nicer to me by not accusing me of cheating lying etc and not wanting to know where I was all the time when I was at work.
Things have not got much better as we have fought and argued for the past couple of years.
I'm now at the point where I don't know what to do any more.
I now feel nothing, I'm empty I feel no love no emotion. I struggle with this as I'm a very lively, enthusiastic, sexual human being.
I've come to realise that he is emotionally abusive as he constantly puts me down, tries to tell me what to wear, what to do with me daughter and in general how crap I am at everything else.
I'm usually a very stong woman and would just walk away but I'm now finding it difficult!
I think I need help, advice, support as I really just feel like taking my daughter and walking away
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SoccerChick · 22/05/2016 00:02
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