Hi
I have posted before about wanting to leave dh, to sum it up he has been abusive in the past and is too strict with the kids but I have recently unburied my head from the sand and realised he is verging on bulling to my ds1. Anyway I have just sat done and asked him to talk, I had made notes earlier whilst my mind was clear of my main points of things that needed to change (all of which about the way he is with the kids) he interrupted me, disagreed with me, accused me etc. I told him that I want our relationship to be over, I said I would take the kids to my mums tomorrow to stay until I could find another house (this is because everytime I have tried to split in the past he refuses to leave the house) he then tells me he is willing to try but I have to do as he says too (all petty childish stuff which he has been bringing up for the past 6 years, most of it untrue). I tried to discuss it with him but I know deep down he will never change so told him I wanted to split.
Instead of getting angry and shouting insults at me like he usually does he is very quiet, said there is no point in him saying anything.
Sorry for the long rant, just needed to get it out and stop crying for what should have been I suppose. I can't help feeling like I'm ripping our family and my children's lives apart.
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I have just told dh it's over, he is unnervingly quiet...
Ijustwannabreakfree · 19/05/2016 20:23
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