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Help - no sex or affection in my marriage - what am I doing wrong?

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nomoreintimacyever Fri 13-May-16 06:57:48

H and I haven't slept together since February. He is completely disinterested. I really need some affection and physical contact. It's permanently on my mind and the futility of hoping it will get better makes it worse.

What do I do confused?

nomoreintimacyever Fri 13-May-16 07:07:26

I just don't know how to stop yearning for something which H seems completely uninterested in or how to stop feeling sad about it. It kind of dominates all my thoughts blush.

TheNaze73 Fri 13-May-16 07:35:21

Has it been a recent phenomenon or declined gradually over time? The two seem to work in tandem. When I'm not having regular sex, I feel less affectionate & vice versa. It's a tough cycle to break

Pjtime159 Fri 13-May-16 07:44:28

Like Naze said, has it been a gradual decline to zero or a sudden halt. Has anything happened in his life recently? How is his mood generally etc....

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