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I can't get over this.

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Cantgetoverthis22 Thu 12-May-16 18:32:45

I saw that my dh (5 years) was watching some 'odd porn' men dressed as women? It's odd to me I dunno? Anyways I've seen he's been on a swingers site looking at this type of thing? He says its just something he likes. As harsh as it sounds it makes me feel sick to the stomach, I find it really really well odd? And I can't see why he would like it... I feel so down about it, I can't sleep. You don't think he wants to sleep with a man do you? I'm just at a complete loss...

Mishaps Thu 12-May-16 18:38:15

Sounds like one to lose and find another man whose habits do not make you feel sick. You are entitled to your views and feelings and since they do not coincide with his, it sounds as though he is not the man for you.

You need to own those feelings and not feel insecure about whether you are "right" - there is no right or wrong, there is only how it makes you feel.

Cantgetoverthis22 Thu 12-May-16 18:39:51

I typed it into google apparently a lot of men like this, doesn't really make me feel any better though, he says he's liked it a while now

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