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Decree Nisi

(6 Posts)
needresolution Tue 10-May-16 15:54:36

So it was read in court today. ( I know theres 6 weeks til the absolute)
Was feeling OK until got message off ex saying 'So then, you become Miss xx again today'!
Me - Do I?
Ex - Todays the day aint it! Do you have to change it yourself?
Me - Todays the day for what
Ex - You are a free woman
Me - Am I
Ex - Court Day, it was nice knowing you!
Me - Was it
Ex - certainly emotional
Me - yes it has been

All his 'friends' rallying round after him today 'supportive hugs'- not one message to me, makes me sick...sad sad

Iamdobby63 Tue 10-May-16 16:08:54


How do you know his friends are rallying around him? Seems like he was trying to get a reaction out of you.

His friends are of no importance to you, let them all get on with it.

willconcern Tue 10-May-16 16:12:13

Just ignore his silly goady messages. Don't enter into the conversation... it can only cause you distress, so detach.


needresolution Tue 10-May-16 16:12:55

If he had had a shred of conscience during our marriage it may have been difference, hindsight ay! But Im the bad one for ending it...

pocketsaviour Tue 10-May-16 21:13:54

He sounds thick as fuck. Stop responding to his childish goading. Do you still have him on Facebook or something? Get rid of the silly fucker so you don't have to see all his mates sending him hugs hmm And get your own legion of "huns" grin

LisaMed Tue 10-May-16 21:22:21

He is as thick as a yard of lard. You are still married until the absolute.

I suggest you don't reply to any messages.

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