I met my husband at uni and moved 1 hours drive from my family to live with him near his family home and we have lived in the area now for 20 years. Both of my children go to out of catchment schools and I work about 30 minutes drive from home. My problem is that we seem to have few friends and never see any of them. Both my husband and I are easy going and well liked at work so I just don't know where we go wrong. I have a close friend but we go out about once every six months for a meal. We have tried inviting our friends over and had a big party when we were forty to which everyone came and had a fab time. That was 3 years ago and not one of them has ever invited us to anything else. I had a party for a few girlfriends last year and again everyone came and had a good time, but then the invite was never returned. I have even hooked up with old work mates but that lasted 1 evening and after then they always arranged a date when I couldn't attend.
My DH family never invite us over despite living close by and have even held birthday party's and not invited us! My mum is as we speak having a bbq with my brother and his family to which we were not invited.
I am starting to feel very low as everyone is out socialising except us - where am I going wrong?
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friends and family never invite us round
treeagate · 08/05/2016 20:22
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