We went out last night with two of DH's friends, their wives, plus two other couples that they are friends with that DH and I hadn't met before.
His friends' wives are very good friends and see each other all the time. We see them occasionally.
I just felt that through the whole night out, the wives and the two other wives from the couples that we hadn't met before were really bitchy towards me. They all see each other regularly and have children at the same school etc, so it's understandable that they are all friendlier to each other to an extent, but all four women were just totally unreceptive to having me join them for the evening (we had a meal, the men sat together at one end of the table, the women at the other). When we first arrived they were all chatting away and although I tried to join in, I was met with one word answers from all four of them, or if I said anything they'd all just look at me. The two that I hadn't met before showed no interest at all in having even the briefest of conversation with me, despite me trying and trying.
Then one of DH's friends' wives said to me "Ooh, nice dress, Sparkly" in a really sarcastic tone and the others all laughed loudly. And it just carried on throughout the evening really; lots of in jokes between the four of them, lots of laughing at each other, lots of one word answers to me, and just ignoring me or looking at me if I tried to join in. I think they resented the fact that I was there. Oh and when we initially went to sit down at the table, they all kept moving away from the chair next to me and trying to sit at other ones, as if sitting next to me was the short straw.
I feel really upset about it all. I could never be so rude to someone to just ignore them even if I'd never met them before. I like to get to know people and to chat.
DH, of course, didn't notice any of it as he was with the blokes, and I feel like there's nothing I can specifically put my finger on and say "they did this", and nothing I could have challenged them on. I just felt really unwelcome and like I was in a playground surrounded by bitches.
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Upset that DH's friends' wives were bitchy to me on night out
SparklyKitten · 07/05/2016 23:18
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