We've been married 10 years now but my hubby literally makes me depressed, he controls everything, does all the shopping, decides what we should eat, where we should or should not go. Never spends time with me, he's always on the phone talking to his friends or sitting in front of his computer. I have no family and friends. We have our adorable child, who is the only reason I'm going on. He is a great dad and loves our child very much but he's a horrible husband. I get Carers Allowance and from that I have to pay the water bill, my phone bill, half of the cost of a sofa set we bought (monthly debit), all mine and our child's basic needs like clothes and stuff. He's very controlling with me but when other people are there it's like butter wouldn't melt, he shows a different side that I rarely see. He readily gives money to his married kids every month even though they work and get salaries. His moods will shift continuously and I just feel like I'm only a housekeeper, cleaner and cook. Never appreciates anything I do. My confidence is at the lowest, I wanted to leave but he said I will not survive without him since I'm a foreigner and this is not my country but I do have permanent residence. I'm a mum I can't leave without my child, he's everything to me.
Please don't post rude comments, I am but a human being, broken and isolated.
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My husband makes me depressed for the last 5 years, lost and confused
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zulu3009 · 06/05/2016 23:40
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