I can't do this in real life, I feel like I want to go into a field and scream. Scream and scream until I can only croak...or vomit
Ex after 2 years still refusing to pay maintenance and owes €13000 euros for last two years...
I've just paid €6000 in lawyers and court fees this week because he's ignoring all letters.
He works 30 hours a week. His choice.
He gets a pension from his old job
He sees DS 4 days a month.
Last month he cancelled a week over Easter that I had to cover with childcare. He said he'd pay the €320 costs. I'm still waiting for the money...
This weekend because he eff'dd up his weekends he booked flights because apparently our DS11 said we were going away this weekend..
...DS said he really didn't say that...I agree with him because it simply isn't anything we've even discussed...(we don't have money to go away for starters....!)
Ex just whatsapped & said he's not going to make the weekend, he thought on cancelling the flights but he's not... because "he really needs a break"
I work a 50 hour week....
We are hanging by a thread in terms of money, organisation, stress..
He really needs a break though...
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRGGGGHHH!
DS is gutted. He won't see him until the end of the month.
I can't even look at his muppety inane grinning fat gob on his Whatsapp profile without wanting to smash my own fist through my phone...
So I had to come here and make a silent scream...anyone want to join me? Please do...
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anyone want to join me in an ex-husband silent scream.....?
wallybantersjunkbox · 04/05/2016 19:31
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