I've been dating someone for around 4 months now. I have fun with him, he's really nice to me and sex is good. But I have absolutely no idea if there is any potential?
He's very keen but I can't reciprocate. I don't feel that strongly - I like him but not with any passion or excitement to be honest. I don't know whether to keep spending time with him and waiting to see if deeper feelings develop, or whether to end things and stop wasting his time. Because I do feel like I am wasting his time a bit at the moment, and I feel horribly guilty when is he really 'into it' and I can't pretend convincingly.
What would you do? I'm trying to be sensible. I want to settle down. My last relationship was very full on from the beginning but was really bad for me. Not sure what is sensible or normal.....
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gracienine · 27/04/2016 15:05
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