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when do you accept that it's going nowhere?

(4 Posts)
mrsfleming32 Tue 26-Apr-16 06:34:02

After nearly 5 years for me. Can't go into it in depth now but the last few days have really opened my eyes.
Feel like a glorified hotel, chef, laundry service, sometime lover and he puts nothing into the relationship.
Very sad sad

needresolution Tue 26-Apr-16 12:27:05

Maybe you need to talk to him and let him know how you feel?

Looly71 Tue 26-Apr-16 12:39:46

Yes agree with need. He may have no idea how you're feeling.

Realitea Tue 26-Apr-16 12:45:24

If you haven't told him already, you must. If he doesn't bother to change his ways then he's not making an effort and you need to have a good think about what you really want. It's so easy for men to fall in to the routine of having a 'second mother'

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