Can't believe I'm writing this will try and keep it short- basically my dh told me on Saturday night that he doesn't think he can do this anymore, that everything in our life (kids/marriage/mortgage/work) is too serious and he can't cope with it being like this forever. That he doesn't know how he feels but that he just doesn't feel right or happy anymore. He isn't sure where he wants to go from here and what the next step should be.
We've been together 7 years, married for 3, have ds together and he is stepfather to dd from previous relationship. He has always had a tendency (and is always this time of year) to go cold and distant, normally he blames something else mainly his lack of freedom, it varies on how long it lasts- days/months-then for the rest of the year he is fine. It's always put an incredible strain on us and maybe I'm naive for not having got rid of him the first time he did this. I believe a marriage should be worked on though- he seems to believe it should be easy and if it isn't then maybe it's not for him.
I feel constantly sick and on the verge on tears all the time, loosing sleep due to just being stuck in limbo. I don't know what to do or say-I don't have anyone I can talk to and I work with his mom so work is beyond difficult. I love him but I also hate him for doing this..again.
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averyoriginalusername · 25/04/2016 18:58
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