Happily cooking dinner for husband when he came home from work, I was telling him "One of my friends..."
He interrupted me, and said "You don't have any friends."
He's not completely right, but he knows, or should know, that my lack of friends upsets me. I told him I thought he had been really cruel. His response was that he doesn't have any friends either, he was joking, and he was sorry. When this didn't seem to make me feel any better, he disappeared upstairs for twenty minutes. When he came down, I'd dished up tea for me and the kids and he is now in a mood with me for blowing things out of proportion.
He is very decent in actions, but often (unintentionally according to him) quite hurtful in words (according to me).
Which one of us is nearer the knuckle, do you think, and what's the best way of communicating better?
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Am I oversensitive or is he an asshole?
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Lucylongcat · 24/04/2016 18:09
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