My ex bf cheated on me last year after a 9 year relationship and cut all contact with me. It has taken me 6 months to come to terms with what happened and this week I have been making plans to move forwards. I checked Facebook earlier today, I found a friend request from cheating ex. I don't have feelings for him anymore and saw him as weak and pathetic. I did not accept the request and marked it as spam so he can't send me anymore requests. Please assure me that I did the right thing.
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whatyouseeiswhatyouget ·
22/04/2016 11:56
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Snowwhiteandrosered ·
22/04/2016 13:31
Thank you. I was just 
that I got to the stage where I'm starting to move-on and he suddenly decides that he wants to contact me again but I think he was probably trying to see what I was doing and if I've met someone else.
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AndTheBandPlayedOn ·
22/04/2016 13:45
He wants to set you up as option B if nothing better is going on for him, imho. Well done on your assertiveness (but I get the second guessing reflex too). KOKO 
Snowwhiteandrosered ·
22/04/2016 21:52
I didn't have a nose around on his page, I was just too 
at his brass neck.
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Snowwhiteandrosered ·
22/04/2016 21:59
Oh and I was very 
as well. I've since told my dbro about it and he said that I have never needed ex bf and never will. Guess he's right 
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