My partner and I have been together for almost 3 years, and we've been living together for just over a year. He's been told he might be getting a promotion at work soon, which could mean moving 100 miles away from where we are currently based. I'm looking for a new job anyway, so the timing isn't too bad, but I will miss all my friends and my siblings who live nearby. Both of our sets of parents and lots of our friends have been dropping (in some cases very unsubtle!) hints to him about when he's going to ask me to marry him, and he already knows that when he asks the answer will be yes.
Friends have suggested that men have a one track mind and that he's only focused on the job at the moment and that then he'll ask. I'm not sure how I feel about moving all that way with no 'formal' commitment, and I've mentioned that to him that I would be giving up a lot to move.
My parents and some of my friends think he should propose if he's asking/expecting me to relocate for him. I don't want to put extra pressure on him whilst he's working hard for the promotion, but... do you think they're right?
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Should he propose if I'm relocating for him?
flso · 21/04/2016 12:18
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