Just that, really. It's not like he drinks to excess, but every weekend night or night when he doesn't have to go to work the next day, he'll drink say 4-5 pints and maybe a couple of brandies. It's enough to make him argumentative and a bit unpleasant sometimes and it means there's no chance of doing anything else together (like sex - he's said that we can't have sex on these nights because he is having a drink). Consequently my weekend evenings are dull and boring and just really involve me cooking our dinner while he drinks and plays video games or watches TV. He often then just falls asleep after we've eaten. I used to love weekends, now I hate them. Also, he often has a bit of a hangover next day and doesn't usually get out of bed much before 11am so we don't get to do anything with our weekend days either.
He's a lovely man and works very hard all week in a physical job so as he says, he deserves his downtime at the weekends. But I miss our 'couply' stuff so much. If I try to talk to him about it be gets annoyed and tells me he's an adult and if he wants a little drink at weekends, he'll have one. He points out, rightly, that he's not falling down pissed so what's the problem?
Am I being unreasonable and controlling by wishing we could maybe have a weekend night without booze? He makes me feel as if I am, but I don't know
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OpheIiaBalls · 18/04/2016 12:04
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