Hi , Hope some of you could give me some advice about this situation i am in as i fear making the wrong decision will be the end of this relationship .
My sister and i have been no contact for a good number of years ,the only contact being with regards to our elderly parents , i have two grown up children who over the years have no contact with my sister too ,now all of a sudden she wants a relationship with them .They however feel that there is too much water under the bridge so to speak ,my sister has mental health problems so her behaviour at times is very erratic ,they have witnessed these events ,i do not wish to upset my sister so i let her down gently saying that they tend to do their own thing now and that i hardly see them too .
However today i received a text from her wanting to go for lunch ,part of me feels sorry for her ,but another part says there is too much water under the bridge and am i being used to forge a relationship with the kids , i really dont want to hurt her but have no clue to the right answer in this situation.
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porthtowanone · 15/04/2016 15:40
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