ExP and I have an informal arrangement around contact and maintenance payments
Last night he told me he moved in with his new girlfriend a month ago and has realised that because she has 2 children, the online calculator says he can pay less maintenance for our children -and will be doing as of next month
He now has our dc less than once a fortnight and has cancelled things with them to pick her daughter up from school etc
I would imagine that his girlfriend claims tax credits, based on the job I know she does. According to dd he still has his house and gets all his post delivered there -he told dd he needed to go round, get his post and 'make it look like someone lives there'
I'm seriously tempted to report them to tax credits, or at least tell him that I could
It's only £50 a month in his mind, but in my mind £50 a month is a lot of money not to have especially as I can't work due to DD1's SEN
Does that make me horrible?
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Does this make me a horrible person?
Emochild · 15/04/2016 09:10
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