DPs ex has form for regularly stopping contact. This time it's been a year since he saw them. They have two siblings here who very much love and miss them, as I do. DP doesn't talk about them. We have savings of just over £1000 which was supposed to be for our wedding but I think it should be used to take his ex back to court to have contact with his children. He thinks it's pointless because his ex is resistant to contact so the money will be spent and he'll still have it stopped. I feel like I can't marry a man who would give up on his children so easily but if I don't then effectively I could be sealing the same fate for my DC.
Is it pushy of me to say the money is better spent on court than a wedding?
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DP wants to get married instead of seeing his DC
LissaLoves · 09/04/2016 23:27
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