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Decree absolute

(7 Posts)
ConfusedNoMore Tue 05-Apr-16 19:43:49

Came through today! Haven't got the papers yet but solicitor informed me I'm no longer Mrs UTC 💃🎆starwinesmile

Notmydolly Tue 05-Apr-16 19:51:39

Best feeling ever!! Enjoy.

How will you celebrate? grin

ConfusedNoMore Tue 05-Apr-16 20:29:49

Thankssmile I feel relieved more than anything. Still have some stuff going through court but this is major progress.

Celebrations.. Step one, get rid of flu bug, rest, chill and feel well with less stress.

Step two, night out with my brilliant friends.

Step three, pass my bloody qualification I've had to do while trudging through this hell, and coming to terms with being a lone parent and new job (at start of this)

Step four, when I buy new house have proper house warming with family and friends and their kids to celebrate our new start.

So think I might be celebrating for quite a while!

Balders74 Tue 05-Apr-16 20:50:11

Yay!! Congrats wine

I wondered how I would feel when mine came through. I had wanted it for so long and it had been such hard work getting to that point. I wondered if I would feel sad for what could have been but actually I felt elated. Fabulous feeling!

Hope you feel better soon & you get all the things you're working towards.

Dungandbother Tue 05-Apr-16 23:31:55

Hooray for you. Mine is about to go into court. Bet it sits there for a stinking four months.

I'm glad you posted. I've been wondering how I will feel when I finally get t.

ConfusedNoMore Wed 06-Apr-16 08:42:16

The nisi is the one that takes time. The absolute is pretty quick. Ex divorced me (for MY unreasonable behaviour...hilarious if you've read any of my previous threads!) He put it in last week so really quick.

Good luck dung. Hope you feel that a weight has lifted, as I do.

ALaughAMinute Wed 06-Apr-16 15:49:01

Congratulations! smile wine I got mine two weeks ago! Yay!

Funny but I wasn't that happy when I first got my decree absolute but now the penny has dropped I'm ecstatic! grin

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