I'm seeing someone who is overweight and has lots of excess flesh. I've no problem with this in theory and we get on very well but I'm struggling with the physical side.
This has hit crisis point as I'm struggling with sex and don't feel able to say why. It would seem so unkind.I'm no spring chicken and have had relationships with a variety of people. I really want to fancy this person but naked I don't.
Has anyone been in this position? My friend said attraction can grow as you get to know someone better. Given how well we get on I'm hoping this is true. But I don't want to cause unnecessary upset by us getting closer and rejecting them later on.
I've never been shallow or rude but this is making me question myself. Any thoughts?
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Can physical attraction grow? Opinions please
rumred · 04/04/2016 11:47
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