Just want opinions on whether i am having am EA. I don't think i am. Have been with DP for 8 years, no DC.
In my last workplace a guy started who lives near me, he is in a committed relationship but not married, no DC. We went to the same school, have a similar sense of humour. Started texting outside work. I left that job a year ago but we still text most days. Sometimes a few texts, sometimes like 30/40. We meet very occasionally for lunch but in a strictly non romantic capacity. He has confessed to liking another girl (other than his own DP) - who isnt me.
Is it safe and ok for me to keep in contact with this friend? DP has met him but doesnt know about the texting - he hasnt looked at my phone and I havent told him.
I dont think there's any physical attraction although i do have a little soft for him because we just click but i click with girlfriends too. We dont even flirt by text, i'm probably worrying about nothing. Just wanted to make sure i'm not acting out of order.
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haveacupoftea · 03/04/2016 01:45
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