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I was The Other Woman....

(9 Posts)
EasyToEatTiger Wed 30-Mar-16 19:03:49

Over 20 years ago. His then wife appeared to let him leave without a blink. I suspect, under the circumstances, and what he said about her, that there was EA. It is all coming to a head. I was young and naive. Now WA are involved.

DoreenLethal Wed 30-Mar-16 19:04:31


ThroughThickAndThin01 Wed 30-Mar-16 19:04:36


Zucker Wed 30-Mar-16 19:05:05

What's WA? Womens aid? are you leaving him for being abusive to you?

Buzzardbird Wed 30-Mar-16 19:07:30

So, you are leaving him too?

HoppingForward Wed 30-Mar-16 19:15:28

Do you suspect she left him because of DV and you are now wanting to do the same?

EasyToEatTiger Wed 30-Mar-16 23:46:31


DonkeyOaty Wed 30-Mar-16 23:54:46

What next then? Do you have an exit plan?

Stay safe. Cover your tracks.

AnyFucker Wed 30-Mar-16 23:56:19

His first wife was probably glad to offload him

How long has he been abusing you ?

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