My relationship is about to come to an end if I cannot fix this. Please read and offer your opinion.
I was widowed with two kids and was pregnant when my ex husband from 10 years ago came back on the scene, we have been great friends since we split - but a difficult few years and my partners death brought us closer again and we just fell back in love.
Both of us gave up hesitating and trying to avoid getting close and after a year of dating, decided to give it a proper go and we moved in together the beginning of this year. My kids LOVE him and has been with the youngest since born, so he knows no different. They all call him Daddy.
He is an amazing step father and partner. He has taken on so much, he is an absolute natural and the kids all love him.
Recently though he has complained that there is no 'US' anymore. It is all about the kids. We both work full-time and both share childcare, so it is true we don't get much time together - but we can't avoid it. I have suggested a childminder so we can have more time together, but we can't really afford it.
He has also suddenly changed his mind about marriage and having another child together, both of which he doesn't want and both of which I did want.
We have tried to talk, but when we do he just says 'Yeah I can see it isn't working'
I am not sure how I fix this, I physically and financially can't give more time. I actually adore the time we spend as a family, so I am satisfied with that when we don't get alone time and we do have a great sex life...
Thoughts? What is reasonable in this situation?
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How much time with your partner is acceptable to expect?
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Losingmyboy · 29/03/2016 17:15
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