Just feeling the need to vent on here.
This weekend has included some really good stuff and some really bad stuff.
It has also included the usual behaviour from family members and "friends". i know I shouldn't find it surprising when these people simply cannot acknowledge anything good that we do, or anything really bad that happens. It's been like this for decades. But still... argggggggggggh.
DH's best friend has died suddenly. Only one family member has had the grace to say "I'm sorry". Everyone else has totally ignored DH's feelings and said "well, it's hardly surprising" about the friend- or has said nothing at all. OK, so the friend hadn't looked after himself. But it was still a shock and DH is grieving.
The same family member had the grace to say "congratulations, well done, that was great" about DH and me doing a hobby thing that we love, broadcast on national radio. Everyone else has responded either with complete silence, or pitying comments about how it's so cute that the hick journalism in our shit little country is so parochial as to broadcast things of that poor quality... Incidentally what we did isn't of particularly poor quality. And the people telling us about how shit our little country is have never even been here.
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magnificatAnimaMea · 27/03/2016 22:40
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