Not sure where to post this, spend most of my time lurking here and supposing others on this board will have the most experience borderline personality disorders.
I am trying to reconcile traits of a narcissist - my H is textbook and i return time and time again to reference material, really so i can think clearly and rationally, such are his powers of manipulation.
BUT, the only thing i've read that doesnt ring true, is that people with NPD only associate with high-achievers / high-status people.
Whilst my H does associate with these types, has some successful friends / family members, it is more common for him to mix with those who could only be classed as losers: bitter, sexist divorcees, pub drunks, bullshitters, down-and-outs. My H is none if these things (yet ) but he has always had these questionable friends.
My point really being to ask, what is this all about and does it mean he cant have NPD? I'm not the only one who's noticed this about him.
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AugustMoon · 27/03/2016 13:27
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