I am reflecting just before a two week visit from my MIL. This is not a MIL bashing but as this cannot be talked about with anyone that I know, just wonder if other people feel a great strain being immersed in someone else's family (ie husbands) when you have no family of your own.
Your relationship with your mother is so basic, so fundamental that when it really is not there, it is hard to observe at close quarters someone fulfilling that role for others and knowing you will never have it from your own mother and that your MIL will not/cannot be a subsitute for you.
I am rambling but trying to get myself ready for an intense two weeks.
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Relationship with MIL when your connection to your own mother was dysfunctional/non-existent
Letsnotaskforthemoon · 21/03/2016 07:36
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