Not sure if I'm over reacting to this or not.
DH has one of those finger print lock phones. This morning DS was playing with his phone and I then took it and had a nosey through it (don't know why but I just did). Anyway he was out with work ones a few weeks ago got in at 3am...looking at the messages that night he and two guys(one single one has a live in partner) he works with went on to a club and a girl chatted one of them up. There was then a picture of the guy with the partner getting his ear bit by one of the girls...the other guy sent it to my DH the next day. He said to my DH 'they thought you were gay' whatever that meant.
The same single guy then sent my DH a message last week when DH was going out to watch the rugby with his non work friends that 'girls like guys who watch rugby' and DH wrote back with a thumbs up sign. I am livid I think it's bloody disrespectful to be receiving and replying to messages like that.
I feel like sending the guy with the live in partners pic onto her and let her decide what she thinks of it. But I'm so angry and upset with the thumbs up sign. I spoke to DH today and his excuse was I didn't know how to reply and I didn't continue on the convo. But I told him a simple why would I care I'm married would of been enough. It has made me question everything now but am I over reacting?
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KitchenNightmare99 · 19/03/2016 20:40
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