Dh is still in a mood with me. Saturday night went out on a well longed for night out with a couple of friends. I started taking sertraline last week and im well aware it says avoid alcohol but having researched and spoke to my friend who had taken it decided to have a couple of drinks in moderation ( 2 single vodka and cokes and 3 wkds) I didnt feel drunk but I ended up with A bad stomach had to come home. Was feeling really emotional as it was and hes gone and gone mad with me.
We argued sat night and I passed out he ended up staying up in a mood. Yesterday we argued again and he told me im irresponsible for putting myself in danger ( i agree). He went bed at tea time and I couldnt sleep was up most night so hes in a mood again.
Just had a txt saying dont expect him to do any jobs when he gets home hed off bed. Said his heads killing and falling asleep. Hes always so grumpy when hes not had much sleep why I do much night stuff with kids.
My anxietys sky high know its my own fault but really annoyed with myself. Totally think hes over reacted sometimes get so fed up of how over protective he is.
To make matters worse hes been having a go at me for arguing when step sons here incase he goes tells his mum but he was the one started shouting id of gladly took myself to bed
Hoping he comes round soon we dont often argue but when we do he can go off for days he knows how low I am so why cant he just let it go now. Arghh had to vent somewhere not sure I need any advuce or anything just needed get it off my chest
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ddeemummy · 14/03/2016 16:56
Thanks. I know hes upset with me id of been same. He said before I went out not to drink so hes not happy I ignored him.
Had night out planned for a few weeks jiat wanted to letmy hair down a bit 
How is 2 vodkas and 3 WKDs drinking in moderation? 
that's not in moderation even if you're not on a drug you've been told not to drink on. And research drugs and alcohol does not include "well my mate was on it".
I'd be pretty annoyed you'd done that too.
That said, you're anxiety is sky high and he should be supportive.
Only you know what he's usually like. Your anxiety will be hard for him too (though far worse for you) and it must have been frustrating for him to see the alcohol effect - and frightening too, if you passed out! If he's normally a good and supportive husband, I'd cut him slack over this - and expect him to cut you choice for the bad choice to drink with new drugs.
If he's like this a lot... Different matter.
Bear in mind that your anxiety can heighten any perceived slights, my DH has anxiety and often asks what's wrong, why am I in a bad mood etc when I just have resting bitch face 
Dont let yourself get too annoyed, just keep doing what you're doing, he'll get over it eventually. He is probably finding your condition a little difficult to live with and hoping you'll improve soon and kind of annoyed that you set yourself back as it impacts his quality of life. Yes that may be selfish but that is the human condition.
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