Since she turned 10 DD1 has been giving me the cold shoulder.
Yesterday she said she hated me (they were playing a game of reverse talking, she said she loved me so soo much). I know it is only a game but she hardly makes eye contact with me nowadays. She is choosing to stay with exH on night she could be with me.
She constantly criticises me. Apparently I have no talent for anything, I am fat and hardly a fashion icon.
I tell her I love her and how fantastic she is. She is so gifted for so many things. At school she hangs out with the pretty and clever crowd.
She also keep putting everyone else down and mostly DD2.
DD2 follows her example and start staying at dad's most of the time.
I am so careful to be a good parent as I know exH is always looking for an opportunity to minimise contact with me and maximise my payments of child maintenance.
Not sure why I am posting.
I wonder where this negative image of me comes from and if it is anything to do with their dad.
It hurts, everyday.
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DD 10 is off with me
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mum2mum99 · 14/03/2016 15:43
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