My family basically don't like children very much, and I am starting to get very fed up of conversations where it is just assumed that everyone else also thinks that children are a pain, that they're almost the enemy, manipulative etc. Yes, they can be a pain sometimes, of course, but they are just little people that are still learning and they need us for that. My family really should know by now that I don't see it like they do, and that I love looking after our daughter. Being a parent is a very important part of me that makes me very happy, and I feel so lonely that they don't see this and I can't share this happiness.
I love being a parent and seeing my daughter develop, and we raise her in a way that we think is good for her, and, most importantly:it isn't a hardship! I worry that one day I'll lose my patience with their point of view and comments, it is really starting to bug me. I can't put my finger on why though! Anybody else recognize this? I don't want this to get between me and my family, cause I think it is my problem really that I should get over! And yes, some of them have children of their own so not a matter of no experience with parenthood.
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Fed up of my family talking about children as nothing but a nuisance, even though I have different views
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cheesygiraffe · 08/03/2016 13:05
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