Hello all, long time male lurker, looking for some female help?
Been in a relationship now, for 22 months. We get on great, have lots of laughs but, some little things are bugging me. Just want to check its normal as I've never experienced them in my 46 years on the planet.
We see each other about 5 times a week, one of us will only stay over once per week, which feels a bit odd. When I see her midweek, she very rarely makes an effort, falls asleep or is preoccupied. I wouldn't mind that if we were say, living together but, it feels like we're no longer dating, so long down the line yet, not in a relationship as we're not doing the living together bit either. If I ever mention it, I'm told I'm pressuring her & that it hasn't even been two years yet. However, she has a 25 year old daughter, who's boyfriend stays over 7 days a week and she sees this as acceptable & normal and they've only been together 5 months.
By and large, things are great but, am I being needy here? She's slightly older than me & we're both divorced.
Can I ask, am I being needy here, wanting more after nearly 2 years in a relationship? If I'm not getting exactly what I want, should i end it? My gut feel is she's complacent to it all.
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HeroToNero · 08/03/2016 08:38
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